Now all things [are] of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation. 2 Corinthians 5:18-19 (NKJV)
It was never God who was reconciled to us but us to Him. While God is passionately against and hates sin He has never been against, angry at, or hated mankind. It was mankind fallen and dead in sin who were against, angry at and hated God.In Christ God wholly gave Himself to free us from sin and all enmity against Him, ourselves, and one another, bringing us back into harmony and peace with Himself, ourselves