Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love. Proverbs 5:18-19(NLT)
Passion and pleasure in and of themselves are wonderful because they come from God. We can revel in reckless passion and pleasure when we choose to engage in them according to God’s way which is in the established and secure borders of marriage – Proverbs 5:15 (NLT)Drink water from your own well— share your love only with your wife. God is the most passionate about us and takes the most pleasure in us. He has given us marriage so we may share in His utmost passion and pleasure. God is faithful to us and in that we find safety and fulfillment. Likewise, marriage which is the most intimate human relationship is meant to mirror the same. The way God focuses His love, care, desire and tenderness on His people is the same way a husband and wife are to focus exclusively on each other. The key is how you see each other. The Scripture has talked about “loving doe, graceful deer, satisfying breasts” this is all about visuals. See your spouse as a blessing from the Lord, a fountain of life and joy. Don’t look for what’s faulty or missing. Look intently and notice the good, the advantages, the strengths in each other. The Scripture has said ” the wife of your youth” Youth speaks of raw intensity where even the little insignificant things excite you and bring you pleasure. Cultivate that mindset where what seems ordinary and insignificant is a wonder all because you’re with the most important, precious and amazing person in the whole wide world.